bitch A bitch is a female dog (any kid on the playground can tell you that) or a female human who, like a dog, will whimper, growl and occasionally bite back. When someone calls a woman a bitch, the message is that she is straying from the quiet, obedient, "feminine" ideal. She is uppity--and needs to be controlled. First used to describe lady dogs in 1000 A.D., "bitch" was applied to humans about 400 years later. The term has endured the test of time and is still a big favorite for putting a woman in her place. The modern twist is applying it to men. A male bitch is seen as "womanish": weak, whiny and submissive (and more than likely gay). Like some other really sharp putdowns, "bitch" has been picked apart lately in an effort to remove its sting. In the early '90s, for instance, riot grrl bands like Bikini Kill and Huggy Bear scrawled the word on their skin, screamed it out in song and openly embraced other "bitchy" behaviors, like shouting at their fans. They gave "bitch" its own ironic twist in an attempt to "reclaim" it. Around the same time, with male hip-hop artists like N.W.A. calling women bitches and hos in their rhymes, female hip-hop artists worked their own magic to diffuse the bitch bomb--most notably Queen Latifah, who demanded to know: "Who you callin' a bitch?" Lil' Kim turned the word on its head once again and proclaimed HERSELF the "Queen Bitch." Want to embrace your own bitchiness? Read "Getting In Touch With Your Inner Bitch" by Elizabeth Hilts.

Comments

[G]

I'm a bitch...
I'm a lover...
I'm a child...
I'm a mother...
It's a great song

[Patty]

All people are the same black or white or hispanic or asian so stop the shit ok

[kit]

hey i really think its horrible how people are being so mean to each other on here.
calling each other mean names.
i think everyone is mean at times and the name *bitch* is used in alot of different ways.
just cool it guys :D

[WTF]

Why did I make you black? Why did I make you black?

I made you in the color of coal
from which beautiful diamonds are formed...
I made you in the color of oil,
the black gold which keeps people warm.

Your color is the same as the rich dark soil

Your color is the same as the black stallion and
panther, Oh what majestic creatures indeed!

All colors of the heavenly rainbow
can be found throughout every nation...
When all these colors are blended,
you become my greatest creation!

Your hair is the texture of lamb's wool,
such a beautiful creature is he...
I am the shepherd who watches them,
I will ALWAYS watch over thee!

You are the color of the midnight sky,
I put star glitter in your eyes...
There's a beautiful smile hidden behind your pain...
That's why your cheeks are so high!

You are the color of dark clouds
from the hurricanes I create in September...
I made your lips so full and thick,
so when you kiss...they will remember!

Your stature is strong,
your bone structure thick to withstand the
burden of time...
The reflection you see in the mirror,
that image that looks back, that is MINE!

So get off your knees,
look in the mirror and tell me what you see?
I didn't make you in the image of darkness...
I made you in the image of ME!
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****Downing how anyone looks isnt cool. But im BLACK and damn proud of it. Sam u r just self conscious and deep down u need to grown and realize that red neck shit is playedddd out. Future president...black...hip hop(most popular & most singles)...blacks made it....Black people in america have a beautiful culture embrace it dont hate on it. Oh yea my REAL HAIR comes past my elbows. I am 5''5 & have a body that many white women PAY to get. & that cotton field shit ur just mad that ur wack ass country family still lives in a damn shack when there are many BLACKS that are making it & yo wack ass family has to pick the cotton & r still BROKE

[Shybitch]

iM A BiTCH SO WATT.. iM A BADDASS BiTCH TOOO ... AND UMMM SAM YOU REALLY ARE A LAMEASSS HE/ SHE WATEVA YOU ARE GET A GRiP... BECUHS BLACK IS THE BEST WHEN IT COMES TO FEMALES OR MALES... SOMETHiNG YOU NEED TO WAKE UP AND REALiZE.. FAGGETTT

[destiny101]

i may not be racist but if most white bitches wanna be racist ill be racist to and thnx xXSiNeAdxX your the best all white girls are bitches the think their better cause the get better grades and their skinny but their stupid all stupid exept for my friends and xXSiNeAdxX you are all so skinny that you look like sticks black peple look good in swim suits and dont have FLAT BUTTS their lips are plump and soft they have bigger BOOBS their children are wayyy prettier and more boys want them and dont get me started about white boys ugly most of the time no one wants to go out with them cause their ugly ohh i just checked my email you scared wittle wittle baby cant email? huh huh scared email me if your not scared ha oh back to my list white people are white trash bitches that like to make fun of other people cause they are less fortunate in what the other person has boobs butt more friends boy friends or are you jelouse cause they have a way more curvy body tell me cause im (BLACK *-*AND IM PROUD)email me tiyara11@YAHOO.COM

[xXSiNeAdxX]

Sam you dirty lil' fucking whore! Who'd you think you are you Racist Bitch??? OMG If you were near me right now I'd fucking Knife your head off. Black people were born black and stay that colour no matter what like and you were born pink, go red in the sun, go green when your sick and go blue when you die, so you can't call black people coloured you skanky fucking cow.

P.S

(( I'M WHITE!))

and GO GET A FUCKING LIFE YOU ASSHOLE

[destiny101]

Ok fist of all this sam girl is a racist BITCH I JUST READ ALL OF THE DAMN MESSAGES AND SHE IS GOING TO ROT IN HELL FIRE IF SHE DOES NOT REPENT FOR MAKING FUN OF THE RACE THAT GOD TOOK SO MUCK FUKIN TIME TO MAKE IM REALLY PISSED RITE NOW BECAUSE IM CHRISTIAN AND IM BLACK IM IM VERY PROUD OF IT I HAVE CURVY HIPS BIG THIGHS THAT LOOK GOOD IN A SWIMSUIT AND MY LIST ARE NOT BIG THIS SAM GIRL MAY NOT HAVE BEEN TALKING DIRECTLY TO ME BUT I AM TO HER AND HERE IS A LIST THAT I THINK YOU NEED SAM YOU SHOULD LOOK IN THE DAMN MIRROR BEFORE YOU SAY SOMYHING OHHH I FORGOT ALL YOUR MIRRORS ARE BROKEN

Get clean. Start with a good shower every morning, or a bath at night. Feeling and looking clean is crucial. Wash with a nice smelling body soap. Get out and pat yourself dry with a towel, and rub in some rich body lotion. You need to be soft and able to cuddle at all times (do not neglect your hands, elbows, and feet). If possible try to layer matching scents on your body, such as soap, lotion, powder, and perfume (ie. vanilla, citrus, rose, etc.)
Practice good dental hygiene as well. Get a check up and have your teeth cleaned often. Invest in a good toothbrush, waterpik, and mouthwash. Always keep mint gum, mints, or breath spray on hand.

Get groomed. Work with what you've got. But keep it neat and tidy! Trim finger and toe nails weekly, remembering to clean under the nail. No fancy nail polish colours are needed, but a simple beige colour can play down any nail discolouration. If you choose to sculpt your eyebrows, tweeze weekly to avoid going back to square one. Once every 2 or 3 weeks, have a pampering day, including a manicure, pedicure, facial, and bubble bath, even if it's just a spa day at home.
Style your hair. Make a trip to the hair salon. A new cut or style will make you feel sexy and confident. Having a change of hair colour is nice, too. Go for something natural and not too dramatic. Deep condition your hair at least once a month. In the mornings, flat iron your hair or put it in a messy bun, depending on your style. Adding extensions or a wig can radically change an everyday look from "ho-hum" to "wow" to turn a few heads.
Create winning skin. Do a steam facial everyday for at least 45 minutes, to open up your pores and get rid of blackheads and acne. to do this, Get a bowl of boiling water, and a towel, and just sit with your face in the steam, using the towel as alittle tent/mini sauna over your head and the bowl.Caution: doing it for longer than 3 hours, will just stress out your skin, which will just make it worse! Wash your face right away afterwords with a cleanser made for your type of skin. Then rinse and splash your face with cold water to close your pores, making them smaller and preventing dirt going back into them. An alternative to this is to use a facial scrub to get rid of flaky, dead skin cells.
Optional: Put on a self-tanner lotion for the face (2 shades darker is perfect for pale skin types) Put a dime size on each cheek and one on your forehead. Blend into your complexion. Wait until dry (about 2 minutes) and wait about 30 minutes until you see results. The great thing about self tanners is that they last all day and you don't have to reapply it like make-up! For darker skin tones, use a bronzer on the cheeks and lids for a more natural sun-kissed glow with lip gloss on the lips. Show your style.

Invest in a good pair of curve-hugging jeans. Dark denim looks good on all body types. Jeans are the ultimate sexy accessory when paired with a tank top or baby tee. Up it a notch and add some strappy heels. Pick some clothes that flatter your figure and that you feel comfortable in. There's no point picking the latest fashions if you don't feel comfortable in them! Pick clothes that make you feel like you! Wear lace-up flats or sneakers. Flats are cute and comfortable--two characteristics that you rarely ever find in the shoe department! Wear jewelery that excites you. Find colourful, fun, bright chunky necklaces and bracelets, but if you wear lots of pearls and beads, don't wear a shirt that has a pattern or a picture on it. Wear a
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monochromatic top with lots of multi-coloured jewellery.Find jewelery you like and something not too big Black is sexy. It hides fat rolls, creates curves and makes you feel like a goddess. Sexy undergarments like thongs might make you feel sexy. Be sure that you're old enough if you going with the thong. Make sure to find your proper size to prevent visible panty line (or visible bra cups!) Don't be afraid to wear or buy a thong, it's just underwear! Who's going to know that you're wearing one? Just make sure you get the low-rise thongs (this means your thong will stay in your pants!) Wear make-up. Just make sure not to go overboard -- subtle is sexy. Accent one feature at a time! For example, one day, put on lip-liner, bold red lipstick, and mascara. For another day, wear subtle pink or clear lip gloss, and wear eye-liner to make your eyes stand out. Get in shape. Create a workout plan. Crunches/Lunges equal flat, hard ab muscles, lunges equal toned legs, and squats equal a toned backside. Running or jogging works all muscles of the body and increases your stamina. Plus, the hormones your body releases while exercising carry on through your evening activities to contribute to your new sexy attitude. Believe in yourself. Confidence shows.

TipsMore than anything, be yourself. Being sexy is about being confident and comfortable. Be relaxed. For real. Uncertainty and fear tends to have an aura. Don't worry and enjoy yourself. It doesn’t matter if you're larger than most girls. You don't have to look like everyone else to be beautiful.

If you like someone and they are into what you think is beautiful, and you think you have to change yourself to fit that kind of style just so you can get the person, don’t even bother. If he or she doesn’t like you for who you are then find someone else.
Posture has a lot to do with being sexy as well. If you feel confident and walk tall, everyone else will think so too. Keep your shoulders back, and walk with a bit of a strut. Go easy on the perfume; keeping yourself clean goes a long way in preventing foul odors, no need to create NEW foul smells.
Drink at least 8 glasses of water a day - it'll help your skin, your diet, and help you feel great! Cocoa or Shea butter is really good for normal to dry skin because it makes your body smooth and soft. Face masks and good moisturizers are also good, be sure to get one that is non-comodegenic (does not clog pores) and matches your skin type. Martial arts, Pilates, Yoga and Ballet are good toning activities.
Dab some clear lip gloss onto your eyelids for a sexy dewy look . Apply eyeliner to the outer corners of your eyelids only, one coat of mascara, some blush or bronzer, and lip-gloss.
Having a boyfriend or girlfriend who you love is a good thing, but being sexy and single is good, too. Don't obsess over your love life.

Wear cute underwear, even if you're not going to fool around. It will make you feel confident and sexy for sure! Be a little bit crazy sometimes. Not in a slutty or dangerous way, but being a little unpredictable is considered sexy.


[edit] WarningsDon't overdo it. It is always obvious when someone tries too hard.
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Beware of those strappy heels. They can cause mayhem if you don't pay attention!Practice, practice, practice at home. Leave vanity behind! Don't squeeze into size 5 jeans if you are a size 7. Wearing clothes that are too small for you or don't fit is the worst thing to do. Don't try to make your body beautiful like a supermodel; make your body beautiful as it is.
Don't go overboard with makeup. You want people to appreciate your natural beauty, so use makeup as a tool to accent your best features. In the eyes of some, genuine beauty is highly preferential to "sexiness" as described in the above article. Genuine beauty is not necessarily pertaining to that which glitters. For some, simple, yet complimenting, full clothing is far more desirable than a "sexy" look.
When applying make-up, emphasise EITHER your eyes OR your lips - NOT both. Heavily made-up eyes with full lips tends to appear too 'over-the-top' - concentrate on just one of these features. Similarly, do not combine short skirts with low tops - go for either cleavage or legs; both together is overwhelming and cheap.
Don't feel threatened by another beautiful person!!! Everyone has something special or unique from another person. This includes YOU! Everyone has weaknesses and insecurities, even if it is not as obvious to other people. So be confident in your individual strengths and who you are.

[edit] Things You'll NeedClothes that are sexy without showing too much Shampoo and conditioner that you trust Confidence Make-up A smile! I BET YOU MY LIFE THAT YOU NEED THIS DAMN LIST AND UNTIL YOU STOP BEING RACIST I WONT STOP BEING AN BITCH SO FUCK YOU AND IF YOU HAVE ANY COMPLAINTS EMAIL ME TIYARA11@YAHOO.COM PEACE.

[Kimberly]

Its a word used offensivly to say someones being mean or oyu don't like them. I think this owrd is abused way to much

[liz.]

a bitch is used in soooo many ways.
people use it to say your mean.some boys call each other that to say that there a punk. some girls say call there friends bitches.

[elizabeth]

a bitch is used in soooo many ways.
people use it to say your mean.some boys call each other that to say that there a punk. some girls say call there friends bitches.

[Jessica]

im a bitch no one cares i satill have friends someone calls me it and i say thank you

[brittany]

U love this word....its fun... hell if someone i dont know calls me a bitch ya i'll get mad but thats cause they dont know me or even have enough respect...if i know you and we are cool then sure we can call one another a bitch...but damn com on people get over yourselves

[brandall]

bitch: is a feamle dog,dogs bark, bark is on trees, trees are a part of nature,nature is beatiful... im ok with being called beatiful.=p

[Skinny]

yall can go on n kill dat nigger shit. cuz white people dont like it when black people call them crackers or nothin like that so jus stop. and being bitchy isnt necesarily a bad thing. jus dont let a dude call u no bitch cuz he aint one and he dont kno wat its like. itz a difference between a strong, independent bitch and a hoe ass, slut ass, bitch ass, bitch. u see?

[amelia]

we're all bitches.

[Mariah]

I know a bitch that goes to my school in Hickory N.C. .The girl whants to start fights with me and I don't think that she is very nice to other girls either! Her name will not be given because I am better than doing that sort of thing,thus I am not stupping to her low level. Particular events in life call for bitchiness,but this girl does not know when to stop!

[bubblez a.k.a yoyo b.k.a skittlez]

im abitch but i cant stand ho ass bitches who aint got nothin to do all day sep read yo comments on myspace all day like the papparazzi stalker

[Kayla]

I agree we all are bitches sometimes get the fuck over it

[rahil]

well a bitch is an insult from a gurl to an another girl..
So..tht means All OF US R bitches..
But..
im nt a bitch
R u one?

[Lacey]

I am a bitch. ur all bitchez. SO embrace it!!!!!!!!!!!!

[FUCKK NIGGERS]

FUCKK ALL YOU NIGGERZZ.

[Jenny]

Ugh. Why are people so sensitive? Take it from a real BITCH. YES, I'M A BITCH. A bitch defines a malicious, and spiteful woman. I am malicious and spiteful, and yes, I complain a lot. But if a man use it in a derogative way, I'll pop off. But other than that, I don't find this word offensive.

[Marla]

Let stop fighting on these blogs because it is not accomPLISHInG ANY THING at ALL!!! :(

[Mariah]

Mikayla you are right!!!!!

[MIKAYLA]

OKAY, people. Let's calm down here and take a look at this whole "fight" thing. Someone said something that made someone else P.O.-ed. Right? Right. So, why don't we all just say sorry and move on? (yes, yes, i'm a wimp. but still!) Stop callin' eachother nigger and all dat, blah blah blah. It's kind of a waste of time.
bye! :)

[Amir]

oky me and bitches do not get along and never will

[WHAT THE FUCK?]

okay all of you guys really gotta calm your fuckin asses. what kind of shit is this? this is a message board, not some kind of place to recieve some fuckin attention, & im sorry if you dont get enough in reality, buh dont come into the digital world seeking some through fucking drama&shit. i just say you all shut the fuck up and move on with your lives, cause this is fucking pointless. YOU WILL ALWAYS FIND SOMEONE WHO IS FUCKING RACIST, ALWAYS WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO SAYS THE WORD. BUT COMING TO A MESSAGEBOARD&CURSING SOMEONE OUT FOR SAYING IT ISNTS GONNA STOP THE WORLD FROM USING THAT WORD, SO YOU JUST MIGHT AS WELL LIVE YOUR LIFE CAUSE NOTHINGS GONNA HAPPEN OR CHANGE HERE.

[Marie]

I was called a Bitch 4 time to day I was on a role!

[Alia]

I'm readn this shit and whom eva sayn betta b a nigga

[Alia]

Im readn this shit here and whom eva said niggers hope you black.And um I am not a Bitch ,never have been and aint tryna be ...

[kelly]

ok,we get it.the fight is over!ok?that's why i'm done with these fights too.they're just stupid!

[rach]

wow, you guys really need to get a life. fighting on a gurl message board? seriously. ur all lame.

[sam]

hha niggers.

[wow]

omg lol u guysr actually fighting in here?

im srry but u guys can just ignore her.....

its not really hard lol

shes probaly just getting u guys worked up for nothing or shes just doing that for because she has no life either way theres far more important things to do than to reply to this asshole

bye!

[kelly]

ok.i'm sorry i ever got into this.look,if you guys want,you can keep fighting.i'm out.i'm just so sick of getting into fights on this comment thing.(ya,you can call me a wimp,and i am one!i figured that out a LONG time ago!and i just thought i'd point it out again,before anyone says anything.)you guys have fun.i'm still gonna stick up for people's rights,but this isn't the way i want to.so ya,i am a wimp.so i'm out.bye!

[samhater]

oh and ill pass on the sucking your shaved glittered permed dick u got there

i dnt suck on twigs sorry :)

[samhater]

yeah just keep on saying to yourself

stop acting like ur a girl

we all know ur nothing but racist little fag who doesnt have anything else to do bu go make us black people feel bad

so why dnt you go play strawberryshortcake and dress up like barbie and come out of the closet

ryan seacrest is waiting in the hotub is that turns u on you little fairy

[Sam]

Except i'm a female you fat cunt.

LOLOL @ YOU.

You Pussies think you're coming back with REAL insults?
Fucking lick my clit bitches.
NEXT!

[samhater]

yo this is wayne brady hater

im goin to stop putting stop false rumors about wyane brady and put TRUE rumors about that bitch sam over there

cuz we all now sam is noting but a racist lice infested redneck whos mad because he cant get any so he had to bone his mother to lose his virginity

so now he blaming us "niggers" because as far as we now his mothers pregnant with his baby and he has no money for abortion so now she has to give birth to the baby and we all know that the babys going to be a another pissheaded licegiving cousin boning mental retard

lets all feel sorry for sam XD

[kelly]

oh,and thanks for the compliment!did you really think'you little boy obsessed slut'would hurt my feelings or something?please!

[kelly]

so?i made a mistake!in case you didn't know,its normal!no one cares!

[Sam]

i must say, that by far was the best come back yet.

go back in the field you little nigger.

[shay]

sam go fuck yourself

[Sam]

I was replying to someone else you little boy obsessed slut.

Maybe you should read everyone elses comments other then mine, and know who im actually talking to.

Asshole.

[kelly]

what the hell does being gay have to do with anything?and me?gay?YEAH RIGHT!i'm practically boy obsessed!and guess what?i'm like 12!how can you really have a life so young?you can ask any of my friends and i say i need a life all the time!IT'S BECAUSE I'M ALWAYS BORED OUT OF MY FUCKING MIND!and you don't exactly ignore comments and not reply either!duh!

[SAM]

LOLOL IM A LESBIAN.

NIGGERS NEVER DO HAVE GOOD COMEBACKS.

AND OBVVV YOU HAVE NO LIFE EITEHR YOU QUEER IF ALL YOU DO IS REPLY TO ME.

LOLOLZZZ.

[kelly]

did you come up with that all by yourself?please.i'm white,but i still stick up for other people when their race is being made fun of.sam,don't you have anything better to do than be a total asshole?i guess not,according to everything that comes out of your mouth.get a fucking life!

[BRiiTTANii]

NIGGER!!!!!
NIGGER!!!!!
NIGGER!!!!!
U SHOULD ALL DIE U NASTY ASS COTTON PICKING GREASE BALLzZ

[a person]

have fun screwin satan sam, oh wait u cant cuz ur lesbo