the ex protection program

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do you freak out at the mention of your ex? you’re not alone. read the comic.
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the ex protection program
art & story by:
rachel nabors
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do you freak out at the mention of your ex? you’re not alone. read the comic.
view comic:
the ex protection program
art & story by:
rachel nabors

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"Don't say Sarah no more, don't say her name because she hurt me so and I just can't let go..."- Wave. One of the reason people avoid doing that would be they want to forget the hurt from a very broken relationship and the bitterness that grows in their heart every time they think of their ex...I think
Posted by: Brandy Robinson | Mar 21, 2009 at 12:45 AM
This has some clever observations, I hadn't thought about that. I think it's partly that we like to respect people's privacy and relationships are a private thing.
Posted by: tyciol | Feb 20, 2009 at 04:24 AM
my brother doss that,he usually avoids saying her name, or anything that would connect to two. but he would never admit that lol.
Posted by: Sierra | Feb 20, 2009 at 02:05 AM
The only gd thing about exes are that you learn from them, hopefully the person won't make th same mistake over agan... love the ending of ts
Posted by: Bianca | Jan 30, 2009 at 11:18 AM
I don't say the name of my exes because i want to forget them. More if we ended it on bad terms. It's best to just forget the past. (my opinion)
Posted by: Cassandra | Dec 12, 2008 at 10:56 AM
the thing with exes is that we should be careful how much be demean them. if we discuss the person we used to date with too much scorn, what does that say about our original judgement to date them?
Posted by: me | Dec 07, 2008 at 07:14 PM
my bf just broke up with me yesterday.. it didn't hurt me because i didn't really liked him.. i just said yes to him because he really likes me.. and i didn't want to hurt him.. so yeah,, im happy that he broke up with me...
Posted by: ruffa | Nov 15, 2008 at 11:16 AM
I do that!!
i don't even know why. even if i'm over them, i just hate saying their names.
Posted by: Anna | Sep 26, 2008 at 10:46 PM
I dont say me ex's name cuz he doesnt deserve 1
Posted by: Heya | Aug 20, 2008 at 12:14 AM
I don't say HIS name because it hurts too much.
Posted by: Maria | Mar 04, 2008 at 01:07 AM
the only reason i don't like saying my ex's name is because i reminds me of the pain he left behind. now im just to scared to talk to him. i just want to forget him, and since he has a common name, that seems REALLY unlikely.
-_________-"
Posted by: Maysee | Feb 10, 2008 at 11:24 PM
I didn't date him, but I had a giant crush on him for like, 4 years.
And he left my school, so now I resent him because it's like he took those 4 years away from me. But he keeps in contact with people at my school, so whenever they bring him up, I'm just dead silent. It blows.
Posted by: Jizzstien | Jan 31, 2008 at 01:08 AM
I LOVE YOU.
<3 i think for me its a thing where if the guy breaks up with ME i won't say his name
yyyyeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh how's calvin? XD
Posted by: Chocochip2000 | Jan 28, 2008 at 04:57 PM
I know that I absolutely hate saying my ex's name (Nick). I really liked him incredibly much going on to the point of loving him, and he really broke my heart. He was actually pretty much a big jerk to me even when we were going out but I looked past it because i really liked him, and I wanted him to like me a lot too. Still, even though I tell myself that I can do a lot better, everytime I hear his name it reminds me of the times we shared, and really just makes me rather sad. :(
Posted by: Nicole | Jan 20, 2008 at 09:28 AM
only a ok comic not rachel's best
Posted by: msminna | Jan 18, 2008 at 08:24 PM
yeah, i understand what this is all about.
i haev to admit, today my friend brought up my ex and i didnt want to talk about him...
because i was a bit embarrassed.
for one thing that i went out with him in the first place..and also that i was really happy and excited about it.
but there you go!
good comic.
Posted by: blurb | Jan 15, 2008 at 05:08 PM
this very catchy...i like it, im actually surprised at the fact that i do that too, i dont ever use my ex's name i always used "he" "him"... lol...wow... thats funny.
Posted by: lili | Jan 14, 2008 at 10:03 PM
I like this comix.But I think its better to "my ex" than saying his name.
Posted by: Nessa | Jan 14, 2008 at 11:25 AM
The reason we shudder at the sound of our ex's name is because we are scared to remember we were happy with them once. The happiness they gave us is now replaced. We don't want to remember or we might just want to reunite, then you think of the negative outcomes of the relationship which always over-rule...
Posted by: Georgia | Jan 13, 2008 at 09:30 PM
HEY! MY name is gertrude! lol no im totally kidding haha i love this comic
Posted by: jessica | Jan 12, 2008 at 09:53 PM
yup I know what rachel means my ex from waay back (Alex if you must know)is a complte ass and all of my friends hate him plus I've caught him hitting on my new bf can you say akward
Posted by: sammy | Jan 12, 2008 at 05:19 PM
I understand the ex thing! I have a few, and one of them in fact attends my school so I see him everyday. We talk on occasion, but it still is so awkward! And there's one other...(who's name is Paris, a name so beautiful that is the OPPOSITE of his personality) that everytime I see a guy that looks like him even a SMIDGET makes me sick inside. It's a terrible fact, really. I call that one "El Diablo"...my boyfriend always know who I'm talking about when I say that name, haha.
Posted by: Nia | Jan 12, 2008 at 03:41 PM
I deffinantly relate with this. My boyfriend's ex is known only as whats-her-face. She doesn't deserve any of my respect even the small amount of me calling her by her name.
Posted by: Bibi | Jan 11, 2008 at 10:03 PM
my x's name is kelly but i like to call him buttface and most of the time if i do say that they know who i am talkn about , it would be fun to ship them off to the a unknown island never to b seen or heard
Posted by: melissa | Jan 11, 2008 at 02:05 AM
i get it fully, i have an ex whos name I HATE to say, it makes my stomach ache&makes me start to shake, my therapist says its an anxiety issue.btw his name is Alec...its a surprisingly popular name all of the sudden..
Posted by: Kitty | Jan 11, 2008 at 12:04 AM
This guy I used to talk to hurt me so bad that not I can't stand any guy named Cameron. sad isn't it? lol
Posted by: Jasmine | Jan 10, 2008 at 09:19 PM
Actually I perfer not to say my ex's name (Keith, if you wanna know) because he was a jerk. He was my first bf, and I have bad memories. small ex. what kind of boyfriend takes you to 4 different dances and won't let you dance, and doesn't himself at any of them?
Posted by: Amanda | Jan 10, 2008 at 06:44 PM
~~I never had ne ex, but I cn well imagine wht happens to dose ppl who had them... :P a true picture potrayed again racheal, keep it up!~~
Posted by: Samriddhi | Jan 10, 2008 at 05:49 PM
I guess you just don't want people to know what losers you dated
Cat
xxx
Posted by: Cat | Jan 10, 2008 at 01:04 PM
I keep quiet about my ex, cause when I tell anyone his name ( I live in a small town) they go "eew! you dated HIM?!?"
Luckily, he's moved now
Posted by: jessy | Jan 10, 2008 at 12:21 PM
my husband and i dont say my ex's name, because he screwed me over so bad. we just want to forget about it.
Posted by: casey | Jan 10, 2008 at 02:22 AM
my boyfriend was abusive and cruel after i refused to have sex with him, no one know everything that happened in that relationship but i proudly say that i dumped him and make sure they know his name and avoid him aka gary
Posted by: Lisa | Jan 09, 2008 at 11:54 PM
I love all of you comix but this one doesn't really apply to me but i still loves it and all my exs but like 2 became my best friends
Posted by: olivia | Jan 09, 2008 at 10:06 PM
never had an ex, but i could c why u'd want 2 b hush hush about it. i mean, doesn't it bring back memories? i get that way about an ex friend of mine. when ever my friends say her name, even refering 2 another person i'm like "nooo! it's lady voldemort!!!!" ha! get it? i know i'm a dork, but my friends luv me :P
Posted by: funnybunny8 | Jan 09, 2008 at 09:11 PM
I've never dated, so I don't have that problem. *sigh*
Posted by: amber | Jan 09, 2008 at 07:42 PM
Generally I avoid saying my exes' (as in multiple), because they tend to have unusual, very recognizable names and I live in a fairly small area.
Also, a few of my exes are other girls and I don't want everyone to know I'm bisexual. So I say "my ex" instead of their name. :)
Posted by: crazygirl | Jan 09, 2008 at 03:54 PM
Never had an ex, but I guess it could get a little freaky. ;P
Good comic, Rachel. Like always. =D
Posted by: metamorphstorm | Jan 09, 2008 at 03:24 PM
GAH thats so so right, I get all funny whenever people say my exes name lol
I'm like eeee -shivers-
I agree with the person above lol I have to see mine like everyday!
I;ve got a new Bf now but my ex hates me so we don't ever talk (kinda sad...) looool.
x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
Posted by: NAI | Jan 09, 2008 at 01:43 PM
GAH thats so so right, I get all funny whenever people say my exes name lol
I'm like eeee -shivers-
I agree with the person above lol I have to see mine like everyday!
I;ve got a new Bf now but my ex hates me so we don't ever talk (kinda sad...) looool.
x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
Posted by: NAI | Jan 09, 2008 at 01:42 PM
exes... *shudder* if only we could ship them off to a deserted island somewhere.
Posted by: Ashley | Jan 09, 2008 at 11:55 AM