i lost my virginity

join one girl as she tells her mom about losing her virginity.

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i lost my virginity

art & story by:
rebecca odes

Comments

[lashawnh]

that was sum real bull it was so fake no ones parents would really react like dat but then again ppl r differnt so they react in different ways

[Em]

Thats totally unrealistic. Im almost positive that no parents would ever act that way if their daughter told them she had sex, especially when shes that young.
I didnt like this one. Its unrealistic & makes sex sound like its not that big of a deal.

[chas!]

OMG! I'm still a virgin, but when I do decide to "do it" (lol) my mom would be the last person in the GALAXY to know! I'd tell ALIENS about it before I'd tell my mom!! She'd beat the crap outa me! ;-;

[Iori]

She's underaged... At my place, the girl will have a slow-talk session with a qualified counsellor.

The reaction of the mother in the comic was really inappropriate. Parents who do that can be reported of showing bad example to their children.

Anyway, I can't believe she slept soundly... you know, a virgin would have her private part aching for having the activity done especially at that age.

[angel]

HEY WELL TO BE REAL I DID NOT ABSOLUTY GET THIS WACK ASS COMMENT.
CUZWHO IF IT WAS ME I WOULD BE IN AN AKWARD POSITION WITH SISTER MOM NANNY BROTHER CUZINS LETS JUST SAY THE DAMN FAMILY . BUT TO BE REAL I HAVE BEEN CURIOUS OF SEX.

[Eve Z.]

I disappeared one night at my bf's home and then I slept over with him many times and my mom asked me calmly one day if i'm protecting myself. there was no big deal for her (ok, I was 21 when i did it for the first time). I didn't admit that i did 'something', but I'm sure she suspects.

I didn't feel any different after that and my relationship with mom didn't change.

after all, it's normal to have had sex at my age. :))

[dg]

kcarmen, ur mom is a bitch i would slapped her and called her a whore. and i wouldve cussed out every last one of those ppl that called me a slut.

I gotta a little ghetto in me

[Oriana Daly]

wwow! how can dat gurl " Sleep soundly ". I still could'nt believe her parents did'nt take it as a big deal!

[ayanna]

this mom in the comic was not that respectful of the girl she just marched threw the house saying she fucked reading the news paper not paying attention

[Ralily]

hmm. is it me or do these comics put a horrible view on sex, relationships, teenagers, and family? maybe i should just be thankful to have the morals and family i have now. because i know my mom wouldn't exactly react like that...nor my dad. but then again it's my life and i don't think i would walk right up to her and say 'well i had sex mom' (i know the comic didn't say that). i don't understand how people can put subjects like this in such a bad light. it makes me feel dirty and i am not even the girl in the story...ew. no offense to anyone who's done it...... or to the author, but that was a pretty bad comic. you should try making comics with a tinnnny bit more background on the girl/guy relationship and maybe try to make things more 'half FULL glass of filtered water' not 'half EMPTY glass of sewer water'. when you think about it, it makes sense.

[KCarmen]

I never told my mother. I felt very ashamed. When she made me go to the gynecologist, she asked the doctor if I was still virgin. The doctor said no. It kinda annoyed me because they were talking about me, and I was right there. And it was my life, my privacy. I didn't actually wanted to loose my virginity with the boy I did. I felt almost obligated because he said he would break up with me if I didn't.
Then, he told all his friends 'how amazing he was' that he 'had sex' and told with whom. Of course, I was known as the school slut. People came to me every day asking if I had had sex with Vasco (the ex.). Of course I told them no. I was ashamed. And it had hurt really much. In classes, my oh-so-called-friends left me and I was all alone when I needed their support the most. My ex and his friends made fun of me (which is pretty stupid), called me really hurting names and always gossiped about it to the whole school. I just wanted to die. So of course I didn't tell my mom. How would SHE react?

I found out. She didn't even say a word before leaving the clinic. After we got out of the building (it was night) she started walking really fast. Unfortunately, that day, my foot was sprained and I couldn't walk very vast and my back hurt a lot.
I asked her to slow down. She didn't even glance at me. I asked her again and again to slow down for she was getting further away.
Then she turned at me and snapped out calling me 'whore' and 'dirty bitch'. Among others. I started crying telling her to listen to me.
This continued for 6 months. She never talked to me and when she looked at me it was only with disgust. She didn't even cook anymore for me, only for my brother. I could hear her laughing with him on the other room and calling me names. I just wanted to kill myself.
Only after 1 year and half she listened to me. Yet she didn't believe me at the first time. Neither at the second. And after 3 years, I still believe she doesn't.

So, I would be very glad if my mom had been like the one on the comic. Sorry for the long rant. I've just never told anyone this, and being the first time, I had to vent all out.

[leigh]

creepy

[Haley]

it seams like it has an ending to me and I think a lot of moms would talk like that, but it still makes me laugh

[Haley]

ha... the best. I should make a comic of when my mom found out... well done, this still makes me laugh

[Kayla]

ok, what my versoin of parents reactions:

mom-crying, dissappointment, wouldnt have said f**k.

dad-screaming his head off, breaking things, questioning me, making a big deal out of it, cussing.

but those are my parents.

brother-saying, "ha ha! kayla got in troooooublllllle!", pointing and laughing at me. (hes 10)

so i cant really relate...

[Tati]

lol she cried? that is so something most little sisters would do.

[me]

omg that was lame cuz your parents wouldnt say the f word (im not gonna type it here) and they definitely wouldn't say it like that and they would not be that calm. wow...

[Chocochip2000]

HA! That's exactly how it is! The ending that is. xD

[lilkidzscream]

i dont like the parents they dont seem real

[Jasmine]

it's an incomplete comic....
that wasn't any ending...
it's wierd....

[Maz]

That was kinda random and didn't really have an ending. I somehow don't think any of my family would be that calm...And I know her mum wasn't freaking calm but thats my point.

[bumblebuz]

it was quite funny bt the end was wack

[Catherine]

Yeah uhh it didn't really have an ending did it?
What happened after that?

[Logan]

omg! that was weird